We all have dogs because they bring us joy and enrich our lives. Dog ownership fulfills at least one of our specific needs, and there’s nothing wrong with that. In principle, all harmonious relationships involve a balance of give and take. If we give as much as we receive, everyone involved should be happy. Species do not matter in this context. Nature gives us many examples of animals of different species forming harmonious relationships with benefits for all parties.

As I mentioned, there is nothing inherently wrong with our selfish reasons for wanting to own a pet. The issue arises when we either fail to recognize this or refuse to acknowledge it. When we do come to this realization, we feel grateful and recognize that we owe them something, wanting to repay that debt—preferably with dividends. However, when we don’t acknowledge this, we often resort to superficial explanations, simplistic interpretations, and knee-jerk reactions—and that is abuse.

I hold a deep respect for all forms of life, regardless of species and race. The relationship between a dog and its owner should not be, in this one aspect, much different from any other relationship—be it with a spouse, a lover, a friend, a parent, or a child. We should find contentment in what we have without yearning for what we cannot attain. We should never take any relationship for granted. Each new day should be one more day for which we feel privileged to share with that particular living being.

At least, that’s how I see it.

Have a great day!

R—

Note: This blog was slightly edited on September 23, 2025, and a new featured photo was added.